Why do we even need to talk about what good girls mean! Why
stereotype a certain type of image for good girls!!
Every girl is a girl next door and every girl is still
unique in her own way.
The conformists and the non conformist rebellions;
The ones who chose to be independent in their thoughts and
the ones who like to follow the conventional thought process,
The ones who spend hours together in front of the mirror to
look beautiful and the ones who don’t give the slightest attention to their
looks;
The ones who are
geeky sorts and can beat guys in logic by all means and the ones who just do
not enjoy logic and are rather more laidback;
The ones who like to
drink and smoke and the ones who fit into the non drinking non smoking type
image;
The ones who like to
flirt and are not afraid of expressing their sexuality and the ones who fit
into the coy image;
The ones who are outspoken and bold and the ones who are
shy and dainty sorts,
The ones who are privileged to be educated and the ones who
in spite of their desire are deprived of education;
The ones who are good at cooking and home affairs and the
ones who don’t really enjoy the daily cores;
The ones who are gifted with beautiful faces and bodies,
and the ones with not so beautiful face;
The ones who are expressive and the ones who lack in expression;
All of them, every one of them is a good girl. For the goodness
depends on the heart and soul of a person.
The definition of
good is same as applies everywhere else and has no special definition meant
only for girls.
Every girl is special. Every girl has her own qualities. Good
and bad is a part of nature of every human being than why talk particularly in
context of girls only!! We may talk about a good person and a bad person but
why particularly label girls as good girls and bad girls…
This post is written for Indispire#
True, there are so many such stereotyped notions that need to change...society I feel is too harsh with their expectations and all of us make up that society..hoping to bring about some change in my own way :)
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