“ACCEPT THE REALITIES. SOMETIMES THINGS AND PEOPLE ARE LEFT BEHIND. AND ITS OK IF U HAVE FAILED IN KEEPING UP. THE FAULT CAN NEVER BE ONE SIDED DEAR. SO STOP BLAMING YOURSELF FOR EVERYTHING.MOVE ON .FORGIVE YOURSELF!”……. “U NEED TO LOOK AROUND ! EVERYBODY HAS MOVED ABOUT AND HERE YOU ARE ,STANDING AT THE SAME PLACE AS BEFORE STUCK WITH ALL THE THOUGHTS OF GUILT. RESPECT YOUR OWN FEELINGS AS MUCH YOU RESPECT OTHER’S. DON’T TAKE THIS REALITY FOR GRANTED THAT YOU HAVE A HEART BECAUSE IT ALSO BEATS LIKE THE OTHER HEARTS AROUND. EVEN IF YOU TRY TO ENFORCE IT TO RULES ALL THE TIME…THE RULES OF BEING RIGHT!! HECK!!!! WHO HAS DEFINED RIGHT AND WRONG..
you know darling trying to figure out right and wrong is the thing that leaves you most confused …SO JUST LET IT BE! LEAVE YOURSELF FREE EVEN IF IT SEEMS WRONG. SOMETIMES BEING WRONG IS OK FOR YOUR SAKE. ATLEAST YOU WON’T TORTURE YOURSELF THIS WAY. SOMETIMES LETTING GO IS THE BEST THING TO DO..HOWEVER I AM SURPRISED WHY SOMETIMES GETS REPLACED BY EVERYTIME IN YOUR CASE …BUT ITS OK…BE SOFT WITH URSELF…
CHERISH THE PAST MOMENTS AND START WITH A NEW FRESH BEGINNING BY ADAPTING TO THE NEW CHANGES……
we all get this idea of bein nice, acceptin the reality, acceptin the facts n all tat only when we talk to ourself.... :) not when we talk to others.... dono y...... :(
ReplyDeleteSometimes.Letting go is the best thing we can do....
ReplyDeleteTrue....HUGS...
@anoop -so true! may be we try to be more practical with others but while with ourselves all the rationality evaporates !! donno y... :(
ReplyDelete@nikita -luv u swthrt! :)
hope this letting go thing never creeps into dis place..i want to be here forever but who knows!!
The barbarity of brazen dilemma in didactically daunting. What if, 'letting' go was not an option?
ReplyDeleteI often told her, why do you have to be so hard on yourself... alas she never listened. Please all, or please yourself? I'd rather choose self than to live in lament and cling on to threads that are broken from the other side.
ReplyDeleteone of my blogger friends have posted a post on Osho sometime back...it was interesting one...he talked about how man loves to keep himself attached to sorrow coz it's in sorrow that his ego gets the utmost attention and boost...true isn't it?
ReplyDelete@Anshul confusing it gets sometimes while in reality its damn simple just the other moment
ReplyDelete@Megha yeah!!! ego!! yes i am damn egoistic...and i am trying to think of the reality of wat u said! i think yes its true to some extent although i have never liked osho that much!